REVIEWS & INTERVIEWS: MY GERMANY
"There is an easy grace to this profoundly intense memoir about
Raphael’s life of reconciliation. Born to survivors of the Holocaust,
he shied away from their past, and for years loathed anything German—even a coffeemaker. Born to eastern European Jews, he shied away from
the German Jews of his New York boyhood neighborhood—and for years
suppressed his religious heritage. Born to be gay, he also shied away from
his sexuality—in his late teens and early twenties, he slept with
girls and defined himself for a spell as bisexual. With age came
wisdom, introspection, and, most importantly the love of another man,
a fellow Jew—a process that saw the author peel away the prisons of
his past and emerge as a proud gay man, a proud Jew and, equally as
liberating, a comfortable traveler to the country that decades earlier
enslaved his parents and exterminated many of his relatives. Part
genealogical study, part book tour travelogue and part coming-out
account, Raphael’s stark portrayal of his religious, sexual and
literary evolution is a compassionate record of one man’s several
liberations."
—Book Marks review by Richard Labonté
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